Friday, April 26, 2013
I Went Flying
Yesterday I rustled up the courage to go flying with my husband in his Cessna airplane. Now this may not seem like such a big deal to a lot of people but for me it was a milestone. You see I have a problem with flying. I hate turbulence as it frightens me to white knuckles and curse words. It's not so much I think we're going to fall out of the sky as it just unnerves me because it doesn't feel right. I have mini panic attacks so I usually take a little Ativan (anti anxiety medication) and a stiff drink, then I sleep through the incidents. Now that I've admitted that you might understand my resistance to flying.
My husband got his pilots license about a year ago and has wanted me to go up with him the whole time. I know he takes good care of his plane, does proper maintenance, and would be a safe pilot but the thought of it was scary so I turned down several trips he's taken.
My sister, Jan, has moved to Medford, OR and I want to go see her new place a visit for a while. It's an 8 hour drive for me which is doable but Michael keeps saying it would be a 3 hour plane ride, tops! That sounds good, but could I actually do it without being sedated?
Earlier in the week we set a date of Thursday to go off on a small adventure. I did take a about a 1/4 of an Ativan but forwent the stiff drink as we were leaving at 10:00 in the morning, it's not quite "happy hour" and I didn't want to be that groggy or asleep. This was a trial flight and if I had real issues we could turn around and land.
We left out of Reid -Hillview airport in San Jose and flew to Columbia, Ca. which is a small "living" mining town in the Sierra Foothils. Click here for a map that shows by road, we flew straight across over Modesto. There were a few bumps while we were gaining altitude and no I didn't really like it but it was not a panic situation. It took us about 40 minutes to get to Columbia where as in a car it would have been 2 1/2 - 3 hours depending on traffic.
We arrived and took a walk from the airport to the main part of town where we had lunch in saloon, walked around town, and then back to the airport. It was a beautiful spring day!
The flight back was about the same, a few more bumps over the mountains as the heat was rising, but again no panic situations.
Michael and I both decided it was a success for me and I am ready to try it again.
I do not know what caused me to change over the years and develop the issue of being afraid. I also have moments of anxiery when being a passenger in a car if I think the driver isn't driving like I do and those little mini panic attacks can arise, not really fun and I don't usually admit it but here I am putting it on the WWW so everyone will now know. If you have ever experienced panic attacks you know how that feels and it's really not something you can control by mindset. If I could just say "I'm not going to be afraid or become anxious" it'd be great but it doesn't work that way.
My family is puzzled too as they have often told stories of me and how I would try anything once and maybe twice, even it if the first experience was not all that good. lol! My Dad tells a story of when I was very young (I think 6?) and there was a small carnival in town and I wanted to go on the Octopus (I think that's what it was called). First of all I always got/get motion sickness so that was a concern for him but I talked him into it. We get on the ride and after the bar was locked my Dad realizes I'm so small I could easily slide out under the bar. The ride begins and we're being tossed and spun all over the place so he's hanging onto me for dear life. He looks over and see's my eyes roll back into my head and I guess I go a bit limp so he's really holding on now. When the ride is finally over and we're getting out he says I turn around and want to go again? So that was the person I was, What happened to my adventuresome side and my daring? Maybe it's a good thing it's gone?
Anyway, I went flying and rather liked it. Not jumping up and down shouting "Let's go again" but saying yes, I think I'll try that again.